Tag: relationship

NTM 353: I want change in our relationship, but I’m worried I’ll upset him

Following a listener’s email, we discuss the often delicate in-between state between where you are and where you want to be, and how you bring *that* to your partner. We often face rejection, anger, or deep hurt when we bring the truth of what’s not working, so in this episode, let us help you guide… Continue reading NTM 353: I want change in our relationship, but I’m worried I’ll upset him

NTM 345: Tapped out and touched out; when you’ve got nothing left for relationship

In this episode, we gently and lovingly nudge you to look at this story in other ways…what might be going on underneath for you? From abandonment wounds to filling our day so completely there’s no time left for feeling, we go to a lot of deep places in this conversation! In this episode we discuss:… Continue reading NTM 345: Tapped out and touched out; when you’ve got nothing left for relationship

NTM 318: Open and alternative relationships with Dasha Clarke

In this conversational insight into one woman’s story on opening her relationship and navigating the highs and lows of that journey, we explore what open relating can be and bring you and your partner. Discussions include: what it can look like changing the relationship structure with kids sharing desires and authenticity navigating heartbreak and disconnection… Continue reading NTM 318: Open and alternative relationships with Dasha Clarke

SLP 62: Self Love Quicky – Your Relationship With You

As Easter, a time of rebirthing, is upon us, take some time to really think about your relationship with YOU. Use this special time to honour how you treat yourself and then notice how it affects how you treat others. Be mindful that life is not happening TO you but, for you, AS you. In… Continue reading SLP 62: Self Love Quicky – Your Relationship With You

NTM 244: Even Julie’s relationship gets hard – part 2

So if you were hooked on part 1 of this conversation and story-telling, then you’re going to LOVE part 2! Julie shares her soapbox style monologue on money, success and ‘her crazy’ before bringing it waaayy down into some pretty real truths of intimacy and practices to quit being bitchy and start being honoured and… Continue reading NTM 244: Even Julie’s relationship gets hard – part 2

NTM 243: Even Julie’s relationship gets hard – part 1

Long term relationship is h.a.r.d. Maintaining intimacy is as much about finding ourselves, as it is the other person. But what does that mean when it’s boiled down into an ‘everyday relationship’? It does NOT mean being perfect, but instead being willing. In this most intimate of sharings, Julie shows you the art of revealing,… Continue reading NTM 243: Even Julie’s relationship gets hard – part 1

NTM 214: The roadmap to deepening your relationship

Our roadmap anyway!  What does it look like to grow intimacy over years, through ‘lacking desire’, defensive responses, values clashes and emotional disconnection?  How do we choose deepending love, connection and appreciation, even when we’re in the midst of tension and challenge?…Follow us as we create a roadmap for you on all things conscious relationship…even… Continue reading NTM 214: The roadmap to deepening your relationship

NTM 183: Getting to a place of ‘yes’ for more children

How do you decide to grow your family? What do these conversations look like in a relationship where one partner is a ‘no’? In this episode we explore the challenging conversations that take place as we seek to listen to our heart’s yearning, while respecting and honouring our partner’s desires…and Merry Christmas! Relevant links: Nourishing… Continue reading NTM 183: Getting to a place of ‘yes’ for more children

NTM 174: The desire for our relationship to fulfil everything for us

In this episode we explore the ways in which we can get in the habit of projecting onto our partner all of the things we want, or want to become, by thinking they need to be everything for us. The truth is to retain our sovereignty, there needs to be enough ‘sameness’ and enough ‘different-ness’… Continue reading NTM 174: The desire for our relationship to fulfil everything for us

NTM 172: Whatever you condemn, you breed, attract or become

In response to a listener’s question, this week we expand upon the concept that whatever you condemn or judge, you will breed into your life and relationship in order to balance your perceptions and love more parts of yourself and those around you. When you become aware of this principle, you can see your feelings,… Continue reading NTM 172: Whatever you condemn, you breed, attract or become